Birth control has NOTHING to do with rape or boys being "more aggressive." It simply doesn't.
Rapists aren't likely to know, or care, whether the woman they are raping is "on the pill."
What the argument about birth control is really about is control. Men wanting to control women. Christians wanting to control promiscuity. Women wanting control of their own bodies.
IF I can see this fact, as a man, then women SHOULD be able to see it as well.