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    Quote Originally Posted by Rorschach View Post
    In my waiting days, we called that the "Three T's:" Titty Touching for Tips......
    And if she is freely choosing that, we should respect it. We don't have the right to shame sex workers.

    But so few at the lowest rungs are choosing freely. Most are sex trafficked.

    Who to rescue and who to not bother is never an easy thing to understand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madeline View Post
    Exactly. By any human towards any human.

    Our children are not being taught thus enough, IMO.
    When I was teaching sex ed you know I stressed that. I had a fantastic moment in my class. One of the boys said girls like it when guys make kissing noise at them on the street. One of my girls said "no we don't that is the way you call a dog". The boys said no girls like it and the girls were saying no we don't .then one of the boys sheepishly looked up and said , "what should we do?" A girl said and I quote, "smile at us and if we smile back it is OK to talk to us but if we ignore you don't say, what's your problem bitch" it was a real educational moment and I didn't have to say a word!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rorschach View Post
    Yea, well, he had three daughters, LOL!

    (And, this wasn't Cameron's 'first' such encounter.......he was actually quite the ladies man. The sort who girls would literally TELL you about how he cared for nothing more than a "one-night stand" and, how they would NEVER go to bed with him....before going to bed with him, later in the evening......for a 'one-night stand.")
    Cameron was the good guy boss?

    Respect and protectiveness towards females are very hot qualities in a man....
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    Quote Originally Posted by bajisima View Post
    But guys love it. I would venture a guess if you could hold some sort of candid camera study where you had a female walk in and squeeze 20 guys butts, few would be upset. Certainly none would file a harassment claim. Would the same be true if it were reversed? I think it just shows how men and women view physical contact very differently.
    There is nothing "all guys" respond to in an identical manner. Suggesting there is reduces them to Ken dolls.

    Men are entitled to moods. Preferences. Different degrees of well-being. Etc.

    Just like a woman is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madeline View Post
    Cameron was the good guy boss?

    Respect and protectiveness are very hit in a man....
    Nah, Cameron was the "ladies man...."

    (And women DID lust after him. He really was a cool dude...who hit on every female who came within 300 yards of him...and women found him incredibly attractive. But, Lisa did not like the crude comment)

    The Manager's name was Tom, and he was one of the finest people I have ever worked for, or with......
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    Quote Originally Posted by Spookycolt View Post
    Comment that a woman has a nice ass and some liberal hears it you will get sued for harassment.

    This is the world they are creating. You can't comment on anything.
    Says the person who is disgusted by a woman breastfeeding.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rorschach View Post
    When I waited tables, I worked with a dude who told a cute, and incredibly sweet waitress:

    "You have nice breasts, I would like to suckle them."

    The Manager fired him at the end of his shift........
    I'm surprised he lasted to the end of his shift. I would have escorted him out right there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jets View Post
    This was years ago. There was a restaurant I used to go to where the waitress seemed to intentionally lean on my back and shoulders when placing food or drinks on the table as well as when picking items up. The fact she was very top heavy made it stand out.

    No pun intended...
    Gonna start calling you tripod.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Madeline View Post
    Ya. That most likely was deliberate. It is a complex subject because...lots of reasons...it is sexist of a woman to move into a man's personal space like that without his consent.
    It is, but the thing is... while more often men will appreciate it, not all men are this way. It only takes one mistake to screw things up for everyone. Eventually that girl is going to sit on a guy's lap who is very shy or very dedicated to his relationship or very religious... and then, it's going to be much more similar to what would happen if a guy did that to a girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chief View Post
    It is, but the thing is... while more often men will appreciate it, not all men are this way. It only takes one mistake to screw things up for everyone. Eventually that girl is going to sit on a guy's lap who is very shy or very dedicated to his relationship or very religious... and then, it's going to be much more similar to what would happen if a guy did that to a girl.
    So what do guys do hypothetically? How about the married guys here? If a pretty woman approached you in a bar and sat on your lap or pinched your butt, what do you do? Now as for the women, what about the reverse?

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