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    Quote Originally Posted by bajisima View Post
    Oh I agree, but I think that's why men don't quite understand sexual harassment. They have a different perspective on it from the get go.
    The men my age didn't get it because they had ALL the power.

    Bigger and able to fire her seems like the place God Intended men to occupy as to women at work.

    That's one reason the Anita Hill testimony was so incendiary. Too many of my male colleagues couldn't figure out what she was complaining about Even If it all happened.

    Dumbasses could not do simple humaning: empathy. Jesus. I have known some of the stupidest men God ever made, emotional intelligence-wise.

    Also a lit of fabulous men. Life is good....but lawyering and moneying seems plagued with the emotionally stupid.

    Anyway, where females are in power positions at work, this has mostly cured this special kind of stupidity by now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Sampson Simpson View Post
    Ha, I was sexually harassed by my gay manager, I just dealt with it. Was extremely awkward, several weeks before he became our store manager, another manager said he came in once and thought I was cute (OK, didn't need to know that). Then he became the manager, and he was kind of an annoying person to begin with, anyway, first day I worked for him he comes running up to greet me all cheery and such (again, awkward). And would make comments to other people about me, or would offer to fix my belt (why you looking at my ass).

    Anyway, after the initial awkwardness I was fine with it
    Interesting... I don't think about gay folks much, but it's true that for average guys if you have a gay man harassing you, it's going to be unappreciated. I was thinking to say that it would be more often similar to a man harassing a woman... but even then, there are big differences. I think the man will be less hurt and more angry, more likely to directly and aggressively act. Where as a woman may be more likely to bottle it up and suffer. Of course every person and every case is unique.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Isalexi View Post
    Imagine that tenfold and you would know how a woman feels
    Hmm... I am not sure that men feel less than women. I think we just respond differently.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Madeline View Post
    The men my age didn't get it because they had ALL the power.

    Bigger and able to fire her seems like the place God Intended men to occupy as to women at work.

    That's one reason the Anita Hill testimony was so incendiary. Too many of my male colleagues couldn't figure out what she was complaining about Even If it all happened.

    Dumbasses could not do simple humaning: empathy. Jesus. I have known some of the stupidest men God ever made, emotional intelligence-wise.

    Also a lit of fabulous men. Life is good....but lawyering and moneying seems plagued with the emotionally stupid.

    Anyway, where females are in power positions at work, this has mostly cured this specual kind of stupud by now.
    I think its harder today. Years ago it was clearly one sided. Today many young women aggressively pursue men in the same way men used to pursue them. My daughter always jokes "its our time." Sexting and all that has made it a bit more level these days.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bajisima View Post
    So what do guys do hypothetically? How about the married guys here? If a pretty woman approached you in a bar and sat on your lap or pinched your butt, what do you do? Now as for the women, what about the reverse?
    I wouldn't care personally, perhaps I would be glad to be recognized in some way, but I would show my wedding ring and tell her thanks, but I am married, or something along those lines.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chief View Post
    I wouldn't care personally, perhaps I would be glad to be recognized in some way, but I would show my wedding ring and tell her thanks, but I am married, or something along those lines.
    Agree I would assume most men would react the same. I would do the same as a married woman. But I have known women to call the police or go straight to Human Resources if it happened at work. Men don't seem to do that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Spookycolt View Post
    Comment that a woman has a nice ass and some liberal hears it you will get sued for harassment.

    This is the world they are creating. You can't comment on anything.
    Bullshit. Well kid, maybe YOU can't comment on anything without using the language of a horny, and poorly raised and educated, 13 year old boy but others can.
    Learn to talk to women like a gentleman, unless of course she asks you not to, and you will have no problems.

    Why do you people think it is SO terrible to be expected to act like an mature and respectful adult in public and/or the workplace?
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    Quote Originally Posted by bajisima View Post
    That's happening as well. They still don't file lawsuits. Look at Dr. Sampsons post, he didn't run to HR and complain. Its a guy thing.
    They also don't run to the cops when abused at home by their wives. Plenty of men are suffering in silence because they know no help will ever come and asking for help is just inviting humiliation.

    Plenty of boys are suffering from the evil female teachers who prey on them, and have no one to ask to help. Often not even their parents.

    This HAS to change.

    Female baby rapers and husband beaters have virtually the same hideous motives as their male counterparts.

    Some bitch female teacher touched my son as a high school kid?

    That woman would go to the boneyard.

    Just as any man who touched my daughter would have done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madeline View Post
    They also don't run to the cops when abused at home by their wives. Plenty of men are suffering in silence because they know no help will ever come and asking for help is just inviting humiliation.

    Plenty of boys are suffering from the evil female teachers who prey on them, and have no one to ask to help. Often not even their parents.

    This HAS to change.

    Female baby rapers and husband beaters have virtually the same hideous motives as their male counterparts.

    Some bitch female teacher touched my son as a high school kid?

    That woman would go to the boneyard.

    Just as any man who touched my daughter would have done.
    Do you think that's rare though? I mean there have been several prominent cases of female teachers going after young males (Mary Kay Letourneau) and it doesn't seem to have that same stigma. I think some dads would murder a male teacher for touching their daughters, but pat their son on the back if it were a young female teacher. There is a double standard for sure.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bajisima View Post
    Do you think that's rare though? I mean there have been several prominent cases of female teachers going after young males (Mary Kay Letourneau) and it doesn't seem to have that same stigma. I think some dads would murder a male teacher for touching their daughters, but pat their son on the back if it were a young female teacher. There is a double standard for sure.
    Its unfortunate, but true. As smart as we think we are, too many of us have double standards to a certain degree.

    How many guys who are fathers joke by saying "Son go out and score. Daughter, do not meet anyone like your brother"
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