Cynthia Nixon On Being Gay: ‘For Me It’s A Choice’

Nov 2008
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So obviously you think you can choose to be attracted to a man, after all it’s a choice
Yes, you can be attracted to chocolate cake, but you don't have to eat it. I'm attracted to the idea of being a millionaire , but my imagination tells me I have to work to earn it
 
Apr 2014
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Yes, you can be attracted to chocolate cake, but you don't have to eat it. I'm attracted to the idea of being a millionaire , but my imagination tells me I have to work to earn it
You’re right you can be attracted to chocolate cake and you don’t have to eat it. We are not talking about inanimate objects. I cannot choose to be attracted to a woman but obviously you can choose to be attracted to a man but you resist.There is no way I could be attracted to a morbidly obese man even though you are saying that we can choose who we are attracted to