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#31
If they want a wife, then they should probably get on a workout program that helps them physically, start eating right, learn a skill and do it well, go to a good church, get right with God, learn they Bible and what it means to be a man.

If a man does all that, don't be surprised if he does find a woman.
No. none of that is required to find a good woman. Unfortunately not every man has the tools to attract a partner. That is just the nature of the world. And forcing your faith onto others will not change that simple fact.
 
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No. none of that is required to find a good woman. Unfortunately not every man has the tools to attract a partner. That is just the nature of the world. And forcing your faith onto others will not change that simple fact.
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#34
No. none of that is required to find a good woman. Unfortunately not every man has the tools to attract a partner. That is just the nature of the world. And forcing your faith onto others will not change that simple fact.
I never said that’s the only way to find a woman. But it is a way to find a woman.

I agree not every person will find a spouse.
 
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Good grief.....

It leads to crime, and abuse for the very reason it is illegal.

Those in the trade would have the protection of the police, and the law. If a client got abusive or failed to pay, dial 911 and have the SOB arrested. Why? Because sex would be a legal business.

I opine it is not what the public wants, it is what the wives want....and not all of them, either. Ya, do understand there would be male sex workers, too.
There are places where it's legal and there is still abuse. I agree it should be legal. I can say to my boyfriend I am withholding sex until he buys me that thing I want him to, but I can't take money directly from someone else? Where is the line?

On a first date I could say you'll get lucky if you take me 'wherever' for dinner. Same difference.
 
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I've worked as a police officer. So I've worked with prostitutes. I would counter with this:

"I think break and enter for theft should be legal. If two consenting adults agree that one of them should be able to go into the other one's houses and get something, that's between them. I should be able to let a friend get something from my house."

See what I did? I described a harmless thing and called it by the name of a crime, and in that way made the crime sound harmless.

If there's ever some fantasy, science fiction fairy dust pixie unicorn land where prostitutes are doing a job for their own money - that they keep - then sure, yes, in that completely fantasy world, prostitution would be harmless.

We do NOT live in that world.

If you actually, genuinely don't know what is going on when you use a prostitute - then get down on your knees and thank God, with tears... grovel in thankfulness that you don't know. Because you'd probably kill yourself if you ever found out.

People who've been sexually and physically abused 10 to 40 time a day since they were six years old can be very, VERY good at hiding it from the John who's 50 bucks is going to get her not kicked in the face a couple times tonight.

I've interviewed dozens of prostitutes for statements.

If you gave me a choice of using one sexually or cuttng off my own finger. I'd do the finger.

She's suffered enough.
 
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I've worked as a police officer. So I've worked with prostitutes. I would counter with this:

"I think break and enter for theft should be legal. If two consenting adults agree that one of them should be able to go into the other one's houses and get something, that's between them. I should be able to let a friend get something from my house."

See what I did? I described a harmless thing and called it by the name of a crime, and in that way made the crime sound harmless.

If there's ever some fantasy, science fiction fairy dust pixie unicorn land where prostitutes are doing a job for their own money - that they keep - then sure, yes, in that completely fantasy world, prostitution would be harmless.

We do NOT live in that world.

If you actually, genuinely don't know what is going on when you use a prostitute - then get down on your knees and thank God, with tears... grovel in thankfulness that you don't know. Because you'd probably kill yourself if you ever found out.

People who've been sexually and physically abused 10 to 40 time a day since they were six years old can be very, VERY good at hiding it from the John who's 50 bucks is going to get her not kicked in the face a couple times tonight.

I've interviewed dozens of prostitutes for statements.

If you gave me a choice of using one sexually or cuttng off my own finger. I'd do the finger.

She's suffered enough.
If it were legal, women could simply advertise their services themselves and not need a Pimp. I get what you are saying, but that is in part due to it being illegal.
 
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Making a legal and licensed brothel might be some new and different thing. But it's so different from what prostitution is that it should have a different name altogether.

No one who uses a prostitute is going to go to a brothel.

You cant punch a brothel employee in the face till she blacks out then take a shit on her and rape her in the ass, then invite a few buddies over to do it too. Then cut her face. Burn her arms with a blowtorch and tell her if she tells anyone you'll kill her.

So yeah.... That's not the same thing.
 
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Making a legal and licensed brothel might be some new and different thing. But it's so different from what prostitution is that it should have a different name altogether.

No one who uses a prostitute is going to go to a brothel.

You cant punch a brothel employee in the face till she blacks out then take a shit on her and rape her in the ass, then invite a few buddies over to do it too. Then cut her face. Burn her arms with a blowtorch and tell her if she tells anyone you'll kill her.

So yeah.... That's not the same thing.
There are brothels in Nevada. In parts of Nevada it's legal. Not Vegas, but that doesn't stop these little cards being given to you all the time with pictures of escorts you can call.
 

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