- Sep 2014
This case is idiotic and I am surprised she started this. Any woman, past the age of 21 know there is at least a 70% chance of a mixed message if she goes to a guys house on the first date. They are most likely NOT asking you to watch HH and drink wine. She had a few chances to leave and she didn't...that alone sends a mixed message, especially after the little scene that happened the first 15 minutes of entering his home. LOL The best policy is to drive yourself to a date, that way you can bolt if the guy is a douche and never go to their house until you get to know them better. You never know what can happen once that door closes...male or female.Right, it's my go to. :wink:
But if you don't want to reciprocate, that's perfectly fine. I don't have to drink wine and watch House Hunters with you either.
I have found the best policy when it come to these things is to just be brutally honest. Come right out and say your true intentions. If they don't like it or aren't on the same page, fine. Nothing has to happen that the other person feels uncomfortable with if everyone knows each other's intentions and expectations.